A Nigerian lady sparked major online debate after revealing why she ended a three-month talking stage just before a planned visit from the man involved.
According to the X user, she initially told him she was preparing egusi soup and pounded yam for his visit, which got him excited. However, she later switched plans by sending him the address of an expensive restaurant and suggesting they meet there instead. Since then, the man reportedly stopped responding.
She defended her move by criticizing men who expect “wife benefits” such as home-cooked meals without putting in enough effort through dates, consistency, or financial investment.
Reactions from Social Media Users
Supportive Reactions
Some users agreed with her stance, arguing that relationships should involve effort from both sides.
They believe expecting domestic treatment too early without proper dating can signal imbalance.
Opposing Reactions
Dona Emezia: “Don’t worry you will know if you are right or not after turning 35 to 40 years.”
Abiodun Odun: “At the end of the tunnel my brother just know say na side chick you go marry.”
Lu Ralph: “She didn’t end any talking stage. It was clearly the guy that ended things probably because he discovered he couldn’t afford.”
Neutral / Mixed Reactions
Man of Valuwence: “Which kind talking stage una dey do for 3 months wen una no be stammerer?”
Others questioned both parties’ intentions, with some criticizing modern dating expectations generally.
Public Sentiment
The story has fueled broader conversations around:
- Dating expectations
- Gender roles
- Financial responsibility in relationships
- “Talking stage” culture in Nigeria
While some praised the lady for setting standards, others felt her approach was manipulative or unrealistic. Overall, reactions remain sharply divided.
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Published by Ejoh Caleb
