Nigerian socialite and influencer Yhemolee has sparked conversation online after candidly discussing men’s spending habits in relationships, particularly highlighting how some prioritise side partners over family responsibilities.
The statement, made during an interview on Wednesday, has reignited debates about financial priorities, cultural expectations, and filial duty in modern Nigerian society.
According to Yhemolee, it is common for men to lavish large sums on extramarital partners while providing minimal support to their mothers, who are often considered central figures in Nigerian families.
He also admitted that he personally engaged in this behaviour in the past, emphasising the widespread nature of the practice.
“Before a man sends 100k to his mother, he go don send one side chick 5 million. Even me, I don run am. It’s not just me; you see it everywhere. Men focus on impressing women outside their homes while forgetting the very people who raised them,” he said.
Public Reactions and Cultural Reflections
The discussion echoes previous controversies in 2025, when several Nigerian celebrities faced criticism for prioritising extravagant lifestyle choices over family obligations.
Social commentators argue that Yhemolee’s admission, though personal, highlights a recurring cultural concern about financial responsibility and respect for elders.
The post has circulated widely across X and Instagram, prompting debates about morality, accountability, and the pressure on men to maintain both social status and family duties.
More Reactions:
“He should speak about himself. Not all men”
“Nah you foolish no be me. Say ‘side chick’ not even your wife.”
“Not all men please. This is only happens when you make your money illegally therefore can’t give your mom some certain amount so as not to raise questions. End.”
“This one sabi talk rubb!sh gan. I don’t know how his wife copes with him at home”
“You and who dy do that one? Me wey dem born with superglue for hand.”
“He was wrong to generalize. But if we’re being honest, this is the reality of so many man.”
“Don’t generalize this thing brother. Speak for yourself. Mama wey I go run too when anything sup. E get some shiii wey you go enter. Your babe go first leave you”
“Before babe go see 50k, I don credit my mama 100k.”
“I don’t agree with this… it’s not something to be proud of even though it’s the reality for most men….. the margin is just too wide”
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Published by Ejoh Caleb
