A Nigerian woman has stirred conversations online after expressing frustration over her husband’s repeated habit of “messing” in her presence without excusing himself.
The video, shared on X (formerly Twitter) by @teniiola, captured a heated exchange between the couple as the wife openly confronted him over what she described as an irritating and disrespectful behavior.
What Happened
According to the woman, her husband frequently “messes” around her without warning or excusing himself. While she had previously tried to ignore it, she said this particular incident pushed her to speak out.
She explained that he could have simply excused himself or asked her to step away instead of doing it openly. The repeated act, she lamented, was beginning to affect her feelings toward him.
However, the husband appeared unbothered, treating the situation humorously. He insisted he had the right to mess anywhere in the house and argued that marriage meant she should tolerate such behavior.
Despite her pleas for him to go to the toilet because of the smell, he refused, escalating the disagreement.
Their Exchange
Wife:
“Babe, which kind stupid character is this? Babe, go and shit now, stop nah. You dey make me regret why I marry you. Which kind stupid character is this? Get out joor.”
Husband:
“Any time I mess, you suppose dey thank me, say, ‘Thank you, my love.’ You no get respect.”
Wife:
“Be like say you sick abi? You dey kill the love wey I get for you with this rubbish thing wey you dey always do because na every day you go dey mess. I regret ever meeting you.”
Husband:
“Make I no mess because say I marry?”
Wife:
“Then excuse yourself na, go to the toilet.”
Husband:
“Dem tell you say toilet dey for mess?”
Wife:
“But why is it that whenever I’m around you, you go dey do rubbish?”
Husband:
“You dey where I dey, so when I wan mess, make I comot?”
Wife:
“You can say excuse, I go comot.”
Husband:
“No, I no go say excuse. You’re not going anywhere. We dey strengthen our love, we dey strengthen our bond. If I mess, you tell me, ‘Thank you, sir. Thank you, my love.’”
Wife:
“Just get out. Everything about you is just irritating…”
Online Reactions
The clip has since generated mixed reactions on social media.
Some users criticized the husband’s behavior, describing it as immature and inconsiderate.
Others argued that such issues should be handled privately instead of being shared online.
A few commenters treated the situation humorously, saying marriage comes with moments of discomfort but mutual respect remains important.
The incident has sparked wider discussions about boundaries, hygiene, and respect in marriage, with many emphasizing that small habits can gradually strain relationships if not addressed properly.
Published by Ejoh Caleb
