A married Nigerian man’s dilemma of feeling bored around his wife while enjoying his girlfriend’s company has generated online discussion.
The troubled husband, who already has a child with his wife, expressed his worries to X influencer @Wizarab10 in an anonymous message, asking if he ought to file for divorce.
“I’m married with a kid but I feel bored even if my wife is aroundme. I don’t feel bored when I’m around my girlfriend; I feel lively around her. I’m really tired of the boredom I feel even when my wife is around. I don’t know if I should divorce her or not, but I can’t keep living this way,” he lamented.
His situation gained popularity very fast, and social media users had conflicting opinions about it.
One commenter, @JanisOmorogbe, blamed the wife for the man’s boredom, stating, “There’s something she’s not doing well. I guess she’s one of those entitled women out there. This generation of women don’t know that the success of every home (marriage) 90% depends on the woman.”
However, another user, @eddiebrendan, cautioned against impulsive decisions, warning that the excitement of a new relationship is often temporary.
“When you eventually convert your girlfriend to your new wife, the cycle will begin again. It’s spicy now because you’re doing touch and go. You should seek ways to spice up the one at home, especially if children are involved.”
Published by Ejoh Caleb
