A young lady recently shared a startling account of trust and boundaries in her relationship, revealing how a private discovery left her both angry and confused. The story, first posted online, quickly sparked mixed reactions, with many debating whether her boyfriend’s actions were unusual or simply harmless.
The Routine She Noticed
According to the woman, the issue began early in their relationship. She noticed that after they were intimate, her boyfriend would rest briefly and then reach for a particular book.
At first, she ignored it. However, she soon realised it had become a routine: every time they were together, he would write something in the same book.
Curiosity eventually got the better of her.
A Shocking Discovery
One day, after he fell asleep, she quietly opened his drawer and took out the book to see what he had been recording. What she found left her stunned.
Her boyfriend had been documenting details of their private moments, noting:
- Day
- Time
- Minutes spent
- Whether he ejaculated
He had even given the record a title: “Sex Time with Babe.”
Her Reaction
The woman said she was furious. In anger, she used the book to hit him, waking him from sleep, and demanded an explanation.
When confronted, the boyfriend reportedly said:
“Babe, I don’t want any wahala. You know we’re just starting this relationship.”
His response did little to calm her. She admitted that she remained upset with him for nearly a month.
The Unexpected Turn
The situation took an unexpected turn when he later met her father and explained what had happened. According to her account, her father sided with the boyfriend, reportedly saying he was doing the right thing and describing him as wise.
The young woman said the reaction left her speechless:
“At that point, I just weak.”
Online Reactions
The post quickly went viral, sparking mixed reactions:
Support for the Woman: Many argued that keeping a detailed record of intimate encounters without a partner’s knowledge was a violation of trust and boundaries.
Support for the Boyfriend: Others defended him, saying that some people document personal experiences as a form of reflection or memory-keeping, and his intention didn’t appear malicious.
Cultural/Generational Perspective: Several commenters noted that the father’s approval highlights different generational or cultural views on privacy, relationships, and sexual maturity.
Published by Ejoh Caleb
