A man has stirred heated reactions online after criticising what he described as a growing materialistic mindset among young women, claiming many now measure their worth by the kind of hotels and apartments they visit.
In a widely circulated video, the man lamented that some women equate class, status and “big girl” energy with how many lodges, apartments and luxury hotels they have entered.
“Girls’ mentality now be say to take know how girls don pass them depends on the kind of lodge you have entered, how many apartments you don enter. That’s what they use to measure if you be big girl or you dey among,” he said.
He further claimed that some women are quick to record videos the moment they step into luxury spaces, arguing that such behaviour shows the experience is rare for them.
“Any girl you carry go lodge or apartment and she bring out camera make she start video, just know say this one don finish. If your babe dey do video, you know why? Na because na once in a while she dey see that kind place,” he stated.
Drawing a comparison, he likened the behaviour to people who over-celebrate Christmas because it comes once a year.
“Why people dey celebrate Christmas dey carry am for head? Because na once in a while dem dey see chicken smile. Everyday na Christmas if you no guide,” he added.
The man also argued that when men take their partners to expensive hotels in Lagos, it creates unnecessary pressure for other women, who then feel “oppressed” by lifestyles they cannot afford.
According to him, many young women focus on enjoying luxury experiences without considering long-term goals such as financial stability and asset ownership.
“These girls no even dey think how dem go take buy car. How dem wan take get the car sef? Na trek, bike bike bike, until trailer hit you,” he said.
The video has since sparked mixed reactions online, with some agreeing with his views and others accusing him of generalising and shaming women.
Watch the video below…
Published by Ejoh Caleb
