A Nigerian clergyman, Apostle Okose, has caused a stir online following his advice to married women,
In a video he posted online, the clergyman said until a woman ‘’graduates from being a wife to her husband’s side chic,” he will never stop cheating.
He said;
‘’No man needs a wife. Every man needs a side chic. Let me explain. Until you graduate from being a wife into a side chic, your husband or boyfriend will never stop cheating. You must understand that he that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing. You are not a wife because you are married. You are a wife because you are found. You must understand that there are characteristics that side chics have. Ask yourself a question, why will a man leave his respectful wife and go be with a side chic who doesn’t respect him? Why will a man leave a woman who gives him peace and be with a side chic that gives him all the bills.
Men love to be with women that make them work because men are hunters. You must be a bad girl…The way you dress, you need to have swag, you need to have that touch of ashawo vibes, that touch of a prostitute vibes.”
Watch a video of him speaking below…
VISIOTALKS was able to compile various reactions towards this advice.
lashaffairby_lush Dear woman understand that a man cheating on you is not your fault. Don’t blame yourself ,don’t be too hard on yourself. I love you sis
onlyanimatedvideos As a man, I’m starting to feel sorry for a lot of women, una dey really tolerate a lot from us men….God bless all the good women out therecause what TF is this!
best6313 Is not at easy as you think, if you think is that easy, babysit your child for one full whole day, only then you will understand what wife go through, talkless of having more than 1 child, home work laundry cooking, abeg sharap there oga, when that side chick start having kids she will fall out of that category
berry_hills No lies stated. Always look good even when you’re married.
kella_thetechdj Doing all these to keep a badly behaved randy man, that’ll still go outside regardless of what you do, the same men that say “some women are for the home, while some others are play things” so you’re telling the virtuous woman that is for the home to turn to a play thing to keep the so called man that married her cos she was decent?? Are you people not confused like this? ls it not madness at this point?? I hope women learn to live their lives on their own terms and ignore these silly confused men
premium_kiddiesthrifts No woman needs a husband, all women want is Sugar daddy
samueligbinosa201 God forbid bad thing. The boldness to talk nonsense in this generation is somehow.
c.h.i.o.m.a Annoying thing is he thinks he’s making sense
chikodi_day To marry now is to fight principalities and powers, cos wth is this
sir_jeff_ Una go just open mouth waaaaaah *smh I blame service providers for making it cheap
taiwo_junzi This man’s confidence in spewing gibberish amuses me. Fidelity isn’t solely contingent on what you do as a woman, your husband has to be willing to be committed. If you like be badder than beyonce, if he’s not willing and able to be faithful there’s little and nothing you can do as a woman.
jamsheila_ You have to graduate from wife to sidechic?? Now y’all rank side chic over wife status now?? Oh wow
