A man has ignited widespread discussion on social media after claiming that financial status now determines acceptance—even within one’s own family.
In a post shared on X (formerly Twitter), Lawrence Kitema expressed frustration over what he described as increasing cruelty toward people who are financially struggling. According to him, money has become the ultimate measure of worth, overshadowing values like compassion, loyalty, and family bonds.
“Nowadays, you need money to become a member of your own family. This world is so cruel to the poor,” Kitema wrote.
His statement quickly gained traction online, resonating with many users who agreed with his sentiments. Several people flooded the comment section with personal stories, recounting how they felt ignored, disrespected, or sidelined by relatives due to their financial situation.
The post has since sparked a broader conversation about materialism, societal values, and the growing divide between the wealthy and the poor, even within families that are traditionally expected to offer unconditional support.
Several social media users responded with emotional and thought-provoking comments, reflecting on how money affects family relationships.
Esperanza wrote: “In a world that appraises your worth by your wallet, remember that God appraises you by your soul. Poverty is a circumstance, not a character flaw…”
JP Attueyi said: “It should not be so. Some families can’t have meeting if the rich one is not available. What the rich one says is what everyone must do.”
Aditi added: “Yeah, that feeling hits hard when even family starts treating love like a paid subscription. The cruelty isn’t new, just more shameless now.”
Other users highlighted how financial strength often translates to influence, protection, and independence.
Ken wrote: “Accept it or not, but it’s a reality. Sometimes, you need money to become a family member in your family. You need money to walk away from the situations you don’t like. You need money as a weapon and defence to challenges in life.”
Praveen shared a similar view, saying: “When survival becomes expensive, love gets conditional and presence gets measured in money. The poor are not lacking character or effort, they are punished for circumstances.”
PapiSpit added humour to the discussion, writing: “Sad but funny because it’s true 😂 These days love got a cover charge and Thanksgiving feels like a shareholders meeting. Being broke turns you into a ‘distant relative’ real quick. That’s why I joke but I also get it. Money doesn’t buy love… it just buys you a seat at the table.”
The discussion continues to spark debate, with many reflecting on how financial pressure is reshaping family bonds and social values.
Published by Ejoh Caleb
