A woman has ignited widespread discussion on social media after questioning why marriages in today’s generation seem more fragile compared to those of the past.
In a post shared on X (formerly Twitter), she compared modern relationships with those of earlier generations, noting that many older couples got married without a prolonged “talking stage,” yet their unions endured for decades.
She wrote:
“Our parents had no talking stage and their marriages lasted. So what exactly are we doing wrong now?”
Mixed Reactions from Netizens
Her post quickly went viral, drawing mixed reactions from users with differing views on love and marriage in modern times.
Some agreed with her, arguing that excessive talking stages, unrealistic expectations fueled by social media, and fear of commitment have weakened relationships today. Others countered that many marriages in the past only lasted because divorce was heavily stigmatized, even when couples were unhappy.
Several users pointed out that modern couples face different pressures, including economic challenges, changing gender roles, and greater awareness of personal happiness and compatibility.
While opinions remained divided, the post succeeded in sparking a broader conversation about how relationships have evolved—and whether modern dating habits are helping or hurting the chances of lasting marriages.
Saleem argued: “Modern relationships often focus too much on finding perfection instead of building it together. Our parents prioritized commitment and patience over the endless options we see today.
“Constant distractions and high expectations make it harder for us to stay grounded. Maybe we should learn that lasting love is about choosing each other every single day.”
Sammy added: “Overwokeness and oversmartness is killing us we don’t know it.”
Queen Oma shared a more personal view, saying: “I do not know about others, my marriage will last to the end of enjoyment. Our parents did a whole lot of great work.
“Some of us have stopped parenting because there is nothing to show. Desires for material things have really dominated the present-day parents.
“Nobody wants to humble for another; everybody wants to be the boss. Whether we like it or not, husbands must still be respected, honored, and loved.”
Nadia pointed out: “They did. They’d known each other all their lives plus their parents did the work for them before.”
Meanwhile, TGO offered a blunt perspective: “You ladies are the issues, because our parents only got married without thinking about money first.”
Published by Ejoh Caleb
