A Nigerian lady has ignited intense conversations online after publicly calling out what she described as a toxic trend where heartbreak and relationship anger are redirected at innocent family members—especially sisters who had nothing to do with the romance.
In a viral post making the rounds on social media, the woman questioned why some people choose to involve siblings in romantic fallouts instead of confronting the person who actually hurt them.
“Which one be say they will do to your sister what you did to me? I no understand,” she said bluntly, stressing that relationships should be handled strictly between the two people involved.
According to her, being someone’s sister does not automatically make her responsible for her brother’s romantic decisions or actions. She emphasized that she neither chased anyone nor made promises to anyone, and therefore should not be dragged into emotional battles she knows nothing about.
“She na me follow you? Na me toast you? I just be sister o. When you dey eat shawarma, you give me?” she added sarcastically, pointing out the hypocrisy of enjoying a relationship privately but redirecting anger publicly when things fall apart.
The lady urged people dealing with heartbreak to channel their emotions toward the right person instead of spreading bitterness to relatives who were never part of the relationship in the first place.
Her comments struck a nerve online, with many users agreeing that dragging third parties into personal relationship issues is unfair and unnecessary.
Social Media Reactions
@IykeNwaObi:
“This is very very correct. No add another person into your wahala. Face it squarely.”
@IykeNwaObi:
“The way they just transfer curses to others forgetting that they were enjoying the vibes earlier.”
@IykeNwaObi:
“When him dey transfer 100k to your account every week, she no dey there oooo.”
@aiktp_com:
“Exactly. People should stop dragging third parties into issues they didn’t create.”
As the debate continues to trend, many agree that the post highlights a larger issue around misplaced blame and emotional immaturity in relationships—reminding everyone that heartbreak, as painful as it is, should be addressed with the person who caused it, not innocent bystanders.
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Published by Ejoh Caleb
