Blessing Paulinus, a single mother, has accused her ex-husband in public of leaving their two children behind for almost eleven years, saying she has been supporting them all by herself ever since they split up.
Blessing described in a Facebook post the financial and emotional weight she has been bearing alone since her marriage ended.
She claims that her ex-husband vowed to make life difficult for her and her family in addition to refusing to co-parent.
She emphasised that she has handled all aspects of parenting, from education and medical bills to feeding, clothing, and every other need, without any contribution from her former partner.
Blessing recounted that she initially made efforts to co-parent with him for three years after the marriage broke down, but he allegedly refused.
In a lengthy note, she wrote:
“It’s been almost 11 years of doing every single thing ALONE. Hol up! I mean, 11 solid years of doing School o, medical o, feeding o, clothes o, girls necessities and EVERY SINGLE BILL ALONE and you think I’ll go through all of that and allow my self share the glory with that kind of irresponsible nonentity?
Someone that said “shebi you think you’re stubborn, you think you have family, I’ll show you and your people shege and you come and beg me before you will see my one naira”.
Someone I literally begged and cajoled to coparent for 3 years since marriage didn’t work again but refused? Make I still dey waste energy wey I for use work on myself to stay alive ontop that kind person??
Someone that was wicked enough to turn his back on his kids when the first was barely 5 and she’s 15 now but still hasn’t looked back or sent in a dime since then?
You think these men don’t know what they’re doing? Lmao! Make I come do all this finish and my pikin go dey bear your name?? I dey mahd?? Make I come share glory with deadbeat man?
Nsa Adiaha!!! Nehi! we don’t do that here! For children wey I been don go collect new birth certificates and change of state of origin for?
“When they grow, they will look for their father”. No wam! Till then, but for now, Both have their nation examinations written with my name and I dey proud of myself like mahd!!!
“Bitter single mom”? Oh yes! Marrying the tag with my full chest, so deal with it!”
Published by Ejoh Caleb
