Two months after paying the bride price, a Nigerian man called off his wedding, blaming his decision on his fiancée’s ongoing drama on social media.
The announcement was made via a heartfelt Facebook post, which attracted attention and generated a lot of online conversation.
The devastated groom—whose identity is being kept a secret—expressed regret for the failed relationship and gave various explanations for calling it quits.
The man listed his fiancée’s frequent negative comparisons to other men as one of the main reasons.
He also disclosed that this was not the first time they had encountered problems, and that his fiancée regularly vented their complaints on Facebook and TikTok.
In his words:
‘’I regret of doing this. I curs£ the day I agree to do this. I thought she will change landed me to this $hame & di$grace.
I married an enemy in disguise of a wife. Reasons why I cancelled & regret this::
– I married a woman who compare me with other men
– This is not the first time we will have issues and she we come on live stream either by Facebook or Tiktok.
– A married woman said she wan go knack on top bride price.
Am not perfect either, but going to social media to talk down on me for 5 hours on tiktok is and unimaginable thing I can’t let go.
So many words have been said in the open. I can’t continue to live with a lousy woman in the name of a wife. My sincere apologies to all our fans and supporters that saw the recent tragedy and feel disappointed.
My supportive lovers pls forgive us. And to all the social media presenters, bloggers, motivational speakers both who gave their opinions on this issue negatively or positively, I say thank you.
I write this note to inform you all that our marriage in Oct 6.2024 can’t hold anymore because it is now shown & seen that we are both not compatible to lead a home.
But I am going for co-parenting to at least make my children proud for they are all we have got on this journey of 6 years.
And on this note she cease to be my wife & no one should pls address her as one henceforth. Man propose God dispose.’
Netizens Reactions…
Ezeh Kenneth Author said: “Few things one can learn from these life story:
“In your anger or happiness, be mindful of how you talk and react to your situations.
“Know where to vent or express your anger, frustration, happiness and desperation.
“A lot of marriages and relationships were in serious crisis, even to the verge of collapse because either of the partner couldn’t handled their situations at the right channel. Bringing marital or relationship issues to the social media platform like Facebook, Instagram, Tik Tok, Telegram,etc have done more harm than good.
“Be mindful that once you shared any information on the social media,a lot of people across the world will access it, giving them different opinions, suggestions, interpretations,etc. BE CAUTIOUS!!!
Justina Onyinyechi Francis said: “Please you guys should just try to find out the problems that causes the problem and try to understand your selves with prayer, Devil don’t want good thing Oo, marriage is beyond love ooo please patient with endurance oooo 👏🙏 .”
Udoka Eze said: “You for manage am because both men and women are headache you carry your own continue drinking paracetamol.”
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