A Nigerian lady has set social media buzzing after boldly declaring that she has zero interest in dating younger men, insisting that only men aged 40 and above are emotionally and mentally equipped to be with her.
The controversial statement, shared in a now-viral post, quickly divided opinions online as users debated her mindset, motives, and delivery.
According to the woman, men in their 20s and 30s should not even attempt to approach her, as they allegedly lack the strength, maturity, and life experience needed to “handle” her personality and expectations.
In her words:
“Let me tell you, I love to date men who are like a father to me. If your age is 40 and above, I would love to date you. If you’re in your 20s or 30s, please avoid me. This package is more than you. You cannot carry it.”
The blunt declaration immediately sparked heated conversations across social media platforms, with many users questioning her reasoning, while others went straight for personal attacks, dragging her looks and intentions into the debate.
Some critics accused her of chasing financial stability rather than love, while others suggested unresolved emotional issues as the reason for her preference for significantly older men.
Social Media Reactions
The comment section was anything but calm.
@B mocked her claim, writing:
“40 self she no go even see.”
@NanaYGh didn’t hold back either, adding:
“Always the ugly ones.”
@realOG0527 weighed in with a familiar narrative:
“Women don’t like nice guys.”
@CHEFDREY dismissed her outright, saying:
“Don’t take a confused gender serious.”
Another user, @angelbertnde101, took a more psychological angle, commenting:
“When a woman says this, it’s often because she grew up without a father figure and is seeking one in a boyfriend. She expects you to pay her bills.”
Despite the backlash, some users quietly defended her right to choose her preference, arguing that attraction and compatibility are personal decisions and not open to public approval.
As the video continues to circulate online, the debate remains ongoing — touching on age gaps, emotional maturity, financial expectations, and the fine line between preference and provocation.
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Published by Ejoh Caleb
