A Lagos-based technician has sparked conversations online after recounting how his profession once stood in the way of his relationship and potential marriage.
According to the technician, his former girlfriend’s mother strongly opposed their union because she considered him “an ordinary technician,” despite the fact that he was financially responsible and already raising two children successfully.
The story surfaced during a casual conversation with a client while he was repairing an air conditioner. While chatting, the technician explained that he has been doing his best to provide for his children, ensuring they attend a good school and are properly cared for.
Impressed by his dedication, the client encouraged him and suggested that his ex-girlfriend’s family had likely lost the chance to have a responsible and hardworking man in their family.
However, the technician responded with an unexpected twist.
“Oga, she no lose anything o, I hear say na politician she marry,” he said.
His response subtly reflected how societal expectations around wealth, profession, and social status often shape decisions about marriage. In many cases, families may prioritise perceived prestige, financial power, or political connections over character, compatibility, and long-term commitment.
The story has since sparked reflection among many Nigerians about the pressures individuals face when choosing partners, especially in a society where occupation and social class can significantly influence relationship outcomes.
For some observers, the technician’s experience highlights the complex reality of love and social hierarchy in modern Nigeria, where genuine relationships can sometimes be overshadowed by expectations tied to status and reputation.
Reactions from Social Media
Chinedu Okafor:
“Being a technician doesn’t mean someone is not responsible. Some families just judge based on job titles.”
Aisha Bello:
“In Nigeria, once politics and money enter the picture, many parents change their standards immediately.”
Tunde Ajayi:
“That man sounds like a good father. Anyone who can raise children well deserves respect.”
Blessing Nwoye:
“Some parents chase status for their daughters without caring about character.”
Sadiq Lawal:
“Funny enough, many so-called ‘ordinary technicians’ earn more than some office workers.”
Ngozi Eze:
“At the end of the day, everyone chooses the life they want. I hope both of them are happy.”
Kehinde Olatunji:
“This is why many relationships in Nigeria face pressure from family expectations.”
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Published by Ejoh Caleb
