A Nigerian lady has sparked widespread debate online after admitting she once urged her friend to leave a “broke” boyfriend — the same man who later became her husband.
The story, shared on X (formerly Twitter), has drawn mixed reactions as social media users weigh in on loyalty, patience, and the role of financial stability in relationships.
The University Days
According to her post, the incident dates back to their university years when her friend’s family was going through serious financial hardship. At the time, her friend was dating a young man who was also struggling financially.
She explained that the boyfriend could only offer “the little he could,” which she described as “nothing to write home about.” Concerned about their friend’s future, she and another companion believed the relationship lacked stability.
Meanwhile, other financially stable men reportedly showed interest in her friend. However, she turned them down, choosing to remain loyal and hopeful about her boyfriend’s potential.
Pressure to Walk Away
The narrator confessed that she and another friend strongly opposed the relationship.
“There’s nothing we didn’t say 🤣 to convince her to leave her broke bf,” she wrote.
Despite their persistent advice and pressure, their friend refused to end the relationship. She stayed committed to her boyfriend throughout their time in school and beyond.
A Complete Turnaround
Years after graduation, the same couple is now happily married and financially comfortable.
The woman revealed that her once-struggling friend now lives in her own house with her husband, and together they own a car. She described their life as “very comfortable,” a stark contrast to their student days.
What shocked her most, however, was a recent act of generosity.
On her last birthday, the married friend reportedly sent her a large sum of money — an amount she admitted she could not afford to gift someone else. Beyond that, the friend also supported her business despite the distance between them.
The gesture left her deeply reflective and ashamed of the advice she once gave.
“I’m still ashamed of myself and the advice we gave her. I’m glad she did not listen to us,” she wrote.
She also noted that both she and the other friend who pushed for the breakup are still unmarried.
“Guess who is still unmarried and yet to find their balance in life? Both of us who advised her,” she concluded.
Social Media Reactions
The post quickly gained traction, with users sharing varied opinions:
@Hemmaunel1 defended the lady, saying her advice came from a place of concern.
“You only wanted the best for your friend. Nobody sees the future.”
@boss_lady praised the married woman’s loyalty and patience.
“This is what standing by your partner looks like. She saw his potential.”
@beardless_smallie warned against romanticizing struggle.
“Let’s not act like every broke boyfriend will become rich tomorrow. Sometimes leaving is valid.”
@Aniitah pointed out the importance of character over money.
“It’s not about being broke. It’s about vision, drive, and responsibility.”
@duke_of_oshogbo reacted humorously.
“Now you people are the ‘villains’ in her love story 😂.”
The story has continued to fuel conversations about whether financial instability should be a dealbreaker in relationships — or whether patience, faith, and shared growth matter more in the long run.
Published by Ejoh Caleb
