A married woman who is pregnant with twins and is not sure if her husband or her ex-boyfriend is the father has turned to social media to ask for advice.
Shared on the social media site X (formerly Twitter), the confession described her situation and garnered a lot of attention.
The woman acknowledged that she made a serious error by rekindling her relationship with her ex, which has now put her in a difficult situation.
She made amends in her post and appealed to the public for direct, honest guidance, no matter how difficult it may be to hear.
She wrote:
“I know this might sound crazy, and you’ll judge me, but I desperately need some honest advice, even if it’s hard to hear. I’m married with a child, and I’ve made a terrible mistake. I went back to my ex, which was a huge error in judgment.”
“To make matters worse, I’m now pregnant, and I’m not sure if the twins are my husband’s. The timing is suspicious, and I’m consumed by fear and anxiety. My husband has done so much for me, including raising money for us to have our twins in America.”
“This is the worst mistake of my life, and I’m filled with sadness and regret. I don’t know what to do or where to turn. Please, I need your honest advice”
After going viral, the sincere admission sparked hundreds of reactions from commenters, many of whom offered suggestions and opinions on how she ought to respond to the circumstance.
See some reactions below:
@PenTitan: “They never use a condom when they go back to their ex. Never. They never say “oh this is rubbish I’m doing, but let me at least be safe”
@kristiano_88: “I understand this her story about the twins being born in America, she’s sure those ones belong to her husband,but imagine using your own money to sponsor your wife’s delivery abroad,only to later discover that the child isn’t yours.”
@FindingKan: “Why is it so hard for women to be loyal? To appreciate the sacrifices a man has made to keep her happy and in order? To make her comfortable. I’m sure that the ex doesn’t even have half of what the man has so what the hell was the problem?”
@kristiano_88: “Ladies that still interact with their ex regularly, even when married are useless.”
@kristiano_88: “When men try to restrict or know the whereabouts of their wife’s,they complain and call them insecure. Meanwhile a mere kiss on the cheeck or neck will turn them on. They will still be putting themselves in such situations. Even a rub/brush of hands can arouse.”
@popterai: “If the pregnancy is still young and I tell you to take it out it’ll be a very bad advice but do what you gotta do to keep your marriage.”
@rea4241: “Something many people don’t understand when they date a lot of people is that love never dies and when they settle down any little moment of weakness can cause a lot of harm. The deed is already done, either you tell him or keep it a secret hopefully the child is his.”
@corydavee: “Married with a child and raising money to have your twins in America….. there’s a disconnect.”
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Published by Ejoh Caleb