A Nigerian lady has gone viral on TikTok after sharing an emotional video detailing how her long-term boyfriend allegedly left her for her best friend.
In the heartbreaking clip posted by TikTok user @udonwatv, the young woman was seen in tears as she recounted the painful end of what she believed was a relationship heading toward marriage.
“12 Years Just Gone Like That”
According to her, she had been with the man for 12 years, during which he allegedly made repeated promises about their future together. She said she never imagined he would walk away — let alone to marry her best friend.
Overcome with emotion, she described the betrayal as devastating and prayed for strength to move on.
In her words:
“He break up with me after 12 years of relationship. He went to marry my bestie. The world is cruel. Anambra man I dey fear una. After all the promise he made to me, he left me for my bestie. 12 years of relationship just go like that. God help me. I don cry tire.”
The video has since sparked intense reactions online, with many debating relationship timelines, red flags, and betrayal.
🔥 Reactions From Social Media
Here are some of the comments that trailed the video:
@looknicewithkcee:
“You will look back in few months and understand what your CHI saved you from. Save this comment, u will need it.”
@Pamella:
“Nne I know of a friend whose boyfriend left after so many years, he married her close friend. After one year the girl got married and had her twins meanwhile the other guy and her wife was struggling to have children. Two years after he died so nne. God is not asleep inugo just let go.”
@Ujunwa:
“I can’t date a man for 1 year. If we are dating and he’s not talking about marriage in three months I leave immediately that my life ooo.”
@mama:
“You date man reach 5yrs and he wasn’t talking about settling down, isn’t that a red flag? You extend am go 12yrs Holy Ghost.”
The story has triggered conversations about long-term dating without commitment, friendship boundaries, and whether there should be a timeline for marriage discussions.
Published by Ejoh Caleb
