A heartbroken woman confronts a married father of two who made advances to her while claiming to be a single parent looking for a serious relationship.
A Twitter user known as @Tounsings used the platform to tell the story of and warn other women about a young man named Oluwatobi Ogundeyi.
According to the lady, their relationship began with him claiming to be a single father looking to remarry. Unfortunately, despite expecting his second child with his wife, he told the same story to six other women on the same platform.
In her words, “I’ve thought long & hard about calling out @__LOC___ (Oluwatobi Ogundeyi) and I know once you put out your personal business on here, it can get out of control.
But men like him thrive on silence and with each lie I have uncovered, I am sure this is not his first time. When @__LOC___ (Oluwatobi Ogundeyi) and I met, he told me he was a single dad. It was obvious he wanted something serious with me, as he stated multiple times during our conversations. I was single, he asked me to be his girlfriend and we started dating.
Obvs, I asked about his kid’s mum. @__LOC___ (Oluwatobi Ogundeyi) told me they were just co-parents. lol.
Suddenly, @__LOC___ (Oluwatobi Ogundeyi) started picking random fights, gaslighting entered the gc as well. He will later tell me he picked those fights because of guilt.
Few months after we started dating, I find out he has actually been married for >5 years. It gets worse… (Oluwatobi Ogundeyi)’s wife was pregnant for his second child from the very first day we met. I remember teasing him once about him having another child, his response?
The day I went to @__LOC___, Oluwatobi Ogundeyi, ’s house to confront him, @__LOC___, threatened to kill me. When I asked about his twitter (as usual) @__LOC___ told me he used to have one, but lost the details and did not bother anymore about it.
Not until recently did I even know this page existed. Obvs he hid it from me because I would have known he was a liar from the beginning. There is a very high chance @__LOC___ (Oluwatobi Ogundeyi) will tell this single dad sob story or maybe invent another one, hit another woman up on social media, a dating site or even LinkedIn.
Don’t buy it. He is a liar who is a fully married man with kids.
And if you want to hurl insults at me, don’t bother cause there is no insult I have not already called myself from when i discovered. So yeah.
Just putting this out there cause people like him thrive on silence, but not this time @__LOC___. Six separate women have sent me messages and it’s the same line of single dad/co-parent Tobi told them all.
Six different women. Gosh.”
See reactions below:
@Rene_noir: Mannnnnn I’m so sorry you went through this. I’m more proud of you for calling him out cos these men get away with nonsense. So sorry sis.
@Sisi_Yemmie: What do people gain from deception???
@Airdropglobal5: Well done for speaking out.
@realFeancis: The way you are sounding, it’s obvious that you want to be second wife
@AyinketheMUA: Kill ke?? Blood of Jesus
@dreynow_: So sorry about the ordeal you had to go through Tosin. Please stay safe.
@BeeOdi: Bruhhhhh why will anyone do this terrible thing, deny your entire family and cheat on your wife, mard man.
@iMotivateAfrica:It’s an evil act.
@Finewine03: That’s why you just don’t date men with kids😭 cause it’s not for the weak
By Ejoh Esther
