Apostle Arome Osayi has ignited widespread debate on Nigerian social media after stating that anyone who reaches the age of 21 without speaking in tongues continuously for six hours is “living a joke.”
The controversial remark was made during a recent sermon, where the clergyman emphasized speaking in tongues as a crucial spiritual discipline for young Christians. According to him, the practice is a sign of spiritual growth, divine alignment, and access to breakthrough.
Apostle Osayi urged youths to intentionally devote time to speaking in tongues, warning that neglecting the spiritual exercise could hinder their destiny, purpose, and overall success in life.
Following the sermon, the comment quickly gained traction online, drawing mixed reactions from Nigerians. While some believers defended the pastor’s position as a call to deeper spiritual commitment and discipline, others criticized the statement as extreme, unrealistic, and potentially discouraging to young people.
Critics argued that speaking in tongues, though an important aspect of Christian spirituality for many denominations, should not be used as a benchmark for personal value, intelligence, or life achievement. Several users also noted that spiritual growth differs from person to person and should not be reduced to a single practice or time frame.
The debate has since expanded into broader conversations about the role of spiritual disciplines in personal development, the pressure placed on young Christians, and the balance between faith, individuality, and mental well-being.
Social media reactions:
@omolyaake_shabz: “So speaking in tongues now guarantees making it in life??? Naaah this Pastor is actually a joke! I’m sorry God.”
@Tinaabold: “Ndi China are progressing. Pastors are opening their mouths to talk anyhow because offerings and tithes sustain them.”
@SamuelZiyodele: “Speaking in tongues is not the license to heaven.”
@priscanall: “21 without other tongues? Your destiny na pure comedy show! Apostle don roast everybody.”
@FhisayoGraphics: “No wonder my life be like this.”
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Published by Ejoh Caleb
