A Nigerian man living abroad has stirred reactions online after sharing a surprising experience from a dinner date with a Caucasian female friend.
The man, identified on X (formerly Twitter) as @Tobywrites, recounted how he took his Caucasian friend out for dinner and paid the bill, assuming it was a normal gesture.
However, according to him, what caught him off guard was her insistence on paying her own share of the meal. He revealed that she asked for his bank account details so she could transfer her part of the bill, a move that left him emotional.
Sharing his experience in a now-viral tweet, he wrote:
“I carry my oyinbo friend comot, pay for the dinner, she dey ask for my account number to send her cut😭. Tears full my eyes. E don dey happen to me for like 5years now. Dem no go gree make you pay for them.”
The post has since sparked mixed reactions on social media, with many users comparing dating cultures abroad to those commonly experienced in Nigeria, particularly around expectations of who should pay on a date.
Reactions Trailing Below….
Ogbeni Ajao remarked, “Baba if them later gree them fit ask you if you are sure up to 700 times”.
General shared, “I went out with an Indian friend, the cost of our meal was £37, she insisted on pay share, at first I disagreed but she kept insisting so I accepted . After that, she asked me if I have transport to go or if she could buy train tickets or top my oyster for me. 🤦🏾”.
Emmanuel DVM, “I carried one babe on a date, i wanted to pay then she said why am i bragging, i shouldn’t do that, that we ate the food together. Since that day i dint have regards for naija babes anymore”.
Amadi Sinach added, “I dey always tell my Nigerian friends for abroad, try date non Nigerian women and Una go see how much you have suffered in the hands of Nigerian women. Until you date a non Nigerian woman, you won’t fully understand what a relationship is truly meant to look like”.
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Published by Ejoh Caleb
