A viral video circulating on social media has triggered widespread debate after a woman advised married men on how to respond when their wives refuse them intimacy.
In the clip, the unidentified woman suggested that men should not plead with their wives for sexual attention, but instead look elsewhere for satisfaction.
Speaking casually, she said:
“Married men, when once your wife denies you toto, go outside go find toto. Toto full everywhere, stop begging her for toto.”
Her comments quickly went viral, drawing mixed reactions across social media platforms. While some users agreed with her blunt stance, many others criticized the advice, saying it promotes infidelity and could weaken trust in marriages.
Public Reactions
Social media users reacted strongly to the controversial statement, with opinions sharply divided.
One user, Oluwatosin, wrote:
“Thank you beautiful sister for your advice. Omoh no woman will do yanka for me o.”
However, another user, Big Nelson, raised concerns about health risks:
“Infection is everywhere too. Remember someone’s sweat can give you infection. Study Hepatitis.”
Other reactions included:
“This lady go live long”
“Rubbish talk, if my wife deny me toto she’s gonna leave my house that moment… I no go fit get wife go the nack girls wey then don use their destiny”
“That’s it, no time to start begging up and down”
The video continues to generate debate online, with users split between those who see it as “honest advice” and others who view it as dangerous and disrespectful to marriage values.
Published by Ejoh Caleb
