A Nigerian man living in Canada has taken to social media to expose his wife for suing him and demanding full custody of their children, demanding full child support, and requiring him to cover special and extraordinary costs because he no longer wishes to stay married.
In a string of posts posted on his Facebook page, the man revealed the information and vented his annoyance at the ongoing legal dispute.
He claims that his wife has done nothing to improve their marriage, but now she wants to use the legal system to take away the one gift she gave him: their children.
m.According to him, she is requesting sole custody and decision-making authority, depriving him of any contact with the children, and expecting him to shoulder all financial obligations.
He added that he was asked to list all of his properties, both inside and outside of Ontario, as part of the legal documents that were served to him.
He bemoaned the state of affairs and charged that his wife’s family was extremely poor and attempting to take advantage of him in order to avoid poverty.
One of his posts read:
“You went to court to demand full custody of the kids and to be the sole decision maker. The only thing you want me to do is pay child support, along with special and extraordinary expenses. I can’t even have a say in my kids’ lives. Am I an ATM? All because I said I’m walking away from the marriage.”
“They’re even asking me to list my properties in Ontario and outside Ontario. You won’t understand how I feel until you marry into a family full of lies and deceit—one that thinks you’re a tool to escape poverty. When you stop giving, they start fighting. Don’t ever tell me to delete this post. You are not mad!”
He went on to reflect on a recent suicide case involving a cardiologist, stating that people often encourage men to speak up but discourage them when they do.
“A few weeks ago, a cardiologist committed suicide and many said he should have spoken up. Now that I’m speaking up, people want me to pull my posts down. Who gave you the right? I’m sharing this to enlighten innocent men who think love is enough.”
Mocking his wife’s demands, he added:
“The only thing you ever brought to the table is what you’re now fighting for—full custody.”
The man also advised other men to protect their assets before getting married.
“Dear men, if asking a woman what she’s bringing to the table offends her, boot her out. Always sign a prenup. Let them call you names—you’ll be glad you did.”
He said he received an email from his wife’s lawyer just as he was about to pick up the kids, which broke him down emotionally.
According to him, her earlier attempts to frame him at the police station failed, and now she is trying to take the kids away while shutting him out of their lives.
“You and your mother lived a life you never dreamed of because of me. Now you want to take my money and deny me access to my kids? I’m speaking out now so there’s a record.”
He ended by addressing his children directly:
“Dearest kids, your mother is fighting for full custody and wants to make all decisions without me. She wants me to only provide money, so she can later cry on Facebook about deadbeat fathers. But you know I gave you the best life
while I was with you. My dear daughter, I threw
the biggest birthday party ever in Sudbury when you turned one—Samuel Eweama and Sunday Chile Thelma were witnesses.”
“Let this serve as evidence: I will never give up on you, my children. No matter what.”
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Published by Ejoh Caleb
