Bamike Olawunmi Adenibuyan, better known by her stage name BamBam, is a Big Brother Naija star and actress. She has also been in several movies.
In a very moving video she posted online, the reality TV actress and mother of two said that her nanny had sexually molested her when she was a little child.
She said that the abuse occurred between the ages of 2 and 8 and that the nanny’s threats prevented her from telling her parents about it.
BamBam claims that despite being married, the violence left her with trauma that she is still coping with today.
She described how the nanny used to force her to suck her breasts and perform fist-masturbation.
BamBam went on to say that some of the men she had dated in the past had raped her a few times. In part, BamBam said:
“I Was Abused by a Nanny as a child between the ages of 2-8. she used my fist to masturbate and forced me to suck her breast while at it, it has affected me in different ways.
I have also been raped a few times as a young girl, I wasn’t ready to have sex with some of the guys I dated in the past, so they forced themselves on me. during sex some things trigger trauma I didn’t know wasn’t dealt with, I have gotten help, I still get help.
Look sex MUST be consensual even in marriage! Sex must be consensual at all times! Don’t manipulate a mind into it! Not to talk of children?!!! I stand against PEDOPHILIA CHILD TRAFFICKING, CHILD MOLESTATION AND ABUSE/ SEX INDOCTRINATION OF ANY-FORM!
Hurt and mentally sick people hurt other people! That nanny was clearly abused or possessed and felt it was okay to do all she did to me! We have sick people making laws to permit their sick orientations! Make it stop!!!”
See video below: