A 35-year-old man has sparked mixed reactions online after publicly sharing a long list of qualities he wants in a woman for a serious relationship that could eventually lead to marriage.
In a Facebook post, the man explained that he is looking for a committed partner for a two-year relationship that could lead to marriage if both individuals prove compatible.
Introducing himself, he said he is a graduate currently searching for a job in his professional field. While waiting for that opportunity, he revealed that he works as a sales agent at a gas station, earning ₦130,000 monthly.
According to him, he prefers a woman who is also employed and earns between ₦120,000 and ₦130,000, so both partners can support each other financially as they build their future together.
He also said the woman must live in Lagos, as he does not want a long-distance relationship.
Beyond financial and location preferences, the man added several personal requirements. He said he prefers a slim woman aged between 22 and 27, with no children, and someone who can speak fluent English.
He also stated that the woman must be a Presbyterian Christian, describing this as one of the most important qualities for him.
The post drew even more attention after he openly discussed his expectations regarding intimacy, saying he has a very high libido and would prefer a partner who is also very active in that aspect of the relationship.
Since the post surfaced online, it has triggered intense debate on social media, with many people sharing different opinions about his expectations.
Social Media Reactions
Adaeze:
“Man earning ₦130k is requesting a full job description for a wife. This country is funny.”
Tunde:
“At least he was honest about what he wants. Some people hide their expectations until after marriage.”
Samuel:
“His salary is ₦130k but the requirements look like someone earning ₦1 million monthly.”
Blessing:
“The problem is not standards. The problem is when your standards don’t match your current reality.”
Chinedu:
“I actually respect the honesty. Whoever is interested knows what she’s signing up for.”
Mariam:
“Four to five times a day? In this Lagos stress? Who has that kind of energy?”
Femi:
“Everyone is laughing but there might actually be someone out there who fits what he wants.”
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Published by Ejoh Caleb
