A Nigerian lady has sparked heated debate online after questioning what she described as the misplaced priorities of some men who lavish expensive gifts on their girlfriends while allegedly neglecting their own sisters.
In a statement that has since gone viral, the woman expressed concern over situations where a man reportedly spends heavily on his romantic partner—buying luxury human hair, trendy outfits, and upgrading her to the latest iPhone—while his sisters, whom she emphasized are grown adults, continue to struggle with basic Android phones and synthetic hair.
According to her, the issue is not about shaming or condemning the sisters’ financial situation, but about the visible imbalance in care, responsibility, and support. She argued that when a man’s mother is still alive and his sisters appear unsupported, such behavior should raise serious questions.
She suggested that this pattern should be seen as a red flag, especially for women in such relationships, as it may reflect deeper issues around values, priorities, and long-term character.
In her words:
“If some of you are not crazy, tell me why your boyfriend has sisters—grown-up sisters—and his mother is still alive. He buys you bone straight, pixie curls, different types of beautiful 100% human hair, and even upgrades your iPhone from one series to another. But you see his sisters, they are still struggling with Android phones—itel, Gionee. Wow.
It’s not like I’m condemning them, but they don’t even have good hair; all their hair is synthetic. Grown-up girls though. Your boyfriend doesn’t spend on them but spends so much on you. Is that thing not supposed to scare you? I don’t know how to put it, but it’s not normal. Like, normal. Do you get?”
Her remarks have triggered mixed reactions online, with some agreeing that family responsibility matters, while others argue that a man’s money is his choice and that adult siblings are not automatically his financial responsibility.
The conversation continues to trend as social media users weigh in on love, family obligations, and what truly defines good character in relationships.
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Published by Ejoh Caleb
