A Nigerian lady has gone viral after boldly declaring that she will never change her surname, even for marriage, leaving suitors with a clear ultimatum: accept it or move on.
In a passionate social media post, Chiamaka Uba explained that her surname is non-negotiable. “The first thing I tell anyone that shows interest in me is, my name is always Chiamaka Uba till I die. I’m not changing my surname for nobody. Your kids can bear your name, I don’t care. Chiamaka Uba till I die, deal or no deal,” she stated.
She didn’t stop there. With a touch of humor, Chiamaka added that she plans to include her stance in a prenuptial agreement. “On no account should you disturb my head that I should change my surname, because I’m not going to. My surname is UBA, and that’s what it’s gonna be till I die. Sorry, sorry, sorry. If you don’t want this, move, shift.”
Social Media Reacts
As expected, the post has sparked a flurry of reactions online:
@TykeNwaObi wrote: “There is no wahala. In order to play well, we will need to have prenup where only people that bear my name will be included in my will.”
@moeleerin joked: “She go tey for her papa house.”
@HonNonsoNwank suggested: “This girl should say this to her suitors and not to the general public.”
@Big__Harry added: “First clock 30 years then come repeat this thing you talk. Ask Tiwa Savage be like you never still learn.”
Identity, Autonomy, and Marriage
Chiamaka’s firm stance reflects a broader trend of women asserting autonomy over their identities, even in the context of marriage. While tradition often expects women to take their husband’s surname, more women are choosing to retain their birth names, viewing it as a statement of personal identity, legacy, and independence.
Whether you agree with her or not, one thing is clear: Chiamaka Uba has sparked a conversation about marriage, tradition, and personal choice that is resonating far beyond social media.
Published by Ejoh Caleb
