A heated debate on gender roles within Nigerian households has ignited strong reactions on social media after a user advised men against participating in house chores.
The comment, posted on X (formerly Twitter), quickly went viral, prompting widespread discussion around marriage, responsibility, and partnership in modern Nigerian homes.
In the post, the user argued that domestic tasks such as cooking and washing dishes should remain a woman’s responsibility, while men should focus solely on providing financially for the household. He warned that men who assist with chores risk losing authority in the home and disrupting traditional family roles.
“I’ll say this once. Don’t make it a habit to be ‘helping out’ in house chores,” he wrote.
“All these ‘She’ll cook, I’ll wash plates’ nonsense shouldn’t be happening. That’s her duty — to keep the home running.”
He further claimed that allowing women to instruct men at home could blur gender boundaries, adding:
“She cooks. You eat. She takes your plate to the kitchen and washes it. You’re already providing for the house. That’s the least she can do.”
The post drew sharp criticism from many users who described the view as outdated, sexist, and dismissive of teamwork in marriage. Others, however, expressed support, agreeing that traditional roles should be maintained.
Reacting to the controversy, another X user identified as TheDabullit shared his personal experience, arguing that domestic help should be voluntary rather than expected.
“Not one clown should tell me to change diapers because I’m home and contracts are slow,” he wrote.
“If I choose to assist, don’t make it my chore.”
He added that when he once left home for a week, his absence led to reconciliation, reinforcing his belief that assistance in the home should not be imposed.
The exchange continues to trend online, with Nigerians passionately debating respect, cooperation, authority, and evolving social values within marriage and family life.
Published by Ejoh Caleb
